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G2G “Grow to Go: Reaching Your Potential”

Grow to Go

I am so excited to share with you how we have been unpacking the 4 C’s at Christ Fellowship (CF) in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.  As you recall the 4 C’s are Communication, Connection, Contribution and Community.

As we think through helping persons take next steps on the journey of faith see if this helps you.  At CF we are doing this through G2G - Grow to Go: Reaching your Potential.

G2G can be unpacked this way.

Discover - Now that you’re on the JOURNEY and have made the most important decision of your life…what’s next?

Develop - no matter what stage of life you’re in, if you have a desire to grow in your relationship with others and Jesus… here are more NEXT STEPS.

Deploy - Jesus commands us to GO… check our next steps that will take your FARTHER than you’ve been before.

First Impressions - Whos responsibility is it anyway? YOURS!

I was in a discussion the other day about First Impressions when someone said, “Who’s responsibility is it? and “Who do I tell?”  I soooo wanted to say, “It’s YOURS” and “do it yourself“, but tried to be more gracious.

Here is the deal.  We can put the best training manuals in the world together, align every team in the church, and tell everyone in class 101 - 501 that everyone is responsible for making first impressions there own, BUT if we as staff do not model for our members what first impressions are we can not expect them to follow.

As you walk across your campus this weekend think about these things:

1.  If you see it, fix it
2.  If parking is an issue help someone find a place to park.
3.  When you see someone you don’t know, introduce yourself.
4.  Help someone before they get to the Welcome Center.
5.  Take someone under your wing for the day.  Never walk alone.
6.  If the material in the Welcome Center is out of date, throw it in the trash.
7.  If someone looks like they need help, they usually do.  Help them.
8.  When you find stuff laying around, remove it.
9.  If the trash is full, take it out.
10. Walk your campus before, during, and after every service.
11. Pick up trash on your way in and out.
12. Straighten signs if needed.
13. If displays look messy, clean and straighten them.
14. Help someone find a seat before the ushers do.
15. Be available to give up your seat in a heartbeat.
16. Stop by every restroom in the facility and clean it before it needs it.
17. Wipe down every counter before calling someone else to do it.
18. Replace the paper in the restrooms yourself.
19. Look for people in need and serve them.
20. Come early and stay late.

Surely that is enough to get us started.  Sorry for the abruptness in my tone of this post.  I am a little tired today.

First Impressions and the effect on Multi-Site Campuses

I am so blessed to be in the midst of thinking though First Impressions and its relationship to a multi-site campus environment.

What does it mean to standardize First Impressions and all that that entails across multi-site?

I.e. -

Communication - oral, print, broadcast, & digital media (branding look/feel)

Connection - traffic, greeters, ushers, first aid, security, welcome centers, campus cleaning, ministry promotions

Contribution - enlistment, training, and placement of ministry partners and the need for cross training

Community - standardization of B.E.L.O.N.G.ing (Become, Embrace, Live, Offer, Nurture, & Grow)

What does it mean to have a standardized assimilation strategy that is organic enough to allow for real community yet strategic enough that follow-up and next steps are taking place.  Stability that creates flexibility.

The more I am researching the more I can see how standardization makes “intentionally”, “clarity”, “alignment”, and “focus” home runs for unity and productivity across an organization.

What are your learnings in this area?

“The people Jesus misses most” and “Is this what your Jesus told you to do.”

I’ve hi-jacked this phrase from Jim Henderson at Off the Map, “The People Jesus Misses Most“. When I pair that with Matt Casper’s phrase, “Is this what your Jesus told you to do” it causes me focus in on asking questions about creating organic community to use Joseph Myers terminology, that moves persons in the direction of Jesus.

I find myself asking more critical questions about why we do what we do the way we do it. A discussion this past weekend triggered me to ask myself even more questions about topics that Jim, Matt, and Joseph are speaking of.

I was reminded of, “the people Jesus misses most” when I proposed the question to some clergy of how their church might react to someone who enters their church with tattoos and piercings. When the clergy replied, “they wouldn’t be welcome”. Why not, I asked? The clergy replied, “they would feel out of place, our people wouldn’t know how to respond to them and people like that just don’t come to our churches.”

My response was, “then I wouldn’t be made to feel welcome would I, because I have 2 half-sleeve tattoos from my shoulders to my elbows”. You can imagine the facial response. I responded by saying, “Do you get my point”. We have put limits on who we feel comfortable with in our services, how we treat them, and our expectations of them. This goes way beyond tattoos and piercings to persons of different ethic backgrounds, mix race marriages, persons living a different lifestyle, persons with criminal records, and the list goes on.

That begs the question, if we are to focus on, “the people Jesus misses most” - (to clarify, I’m referring to persons who are not moving toward Jesus) - it has nothing to do with piercings or tattoos, then we most ask ourselves the question. Is what we are doing the way we are doing it, “what your Jesus told you to do”?

As you look at the week ahead critically evaluated what you are doing and ask yourself these two questions:

1. Does this address the needs of the people Jesus misses most?

2. Is this what my Jesus told me to do?

Seven Things

Seven things I wish the church were like from Dan Kimball’s book reading, “They Like Jesus, But Not The Church.”

I wish the church were not just a sermon or lecture but a discussion.
I wish the church would respect my intelligence.
I wish the church were not just about the building.
I wish church were less programmed and allowed time to think and pray.
I wish the church were a loving place.
I wish the church cared for the poor and the environment.
I wish the church taught more about Jesus.

What’s your thoughts?

Sam Simmons thoughts on, “How Culturally Engaging Is Your Evangelism Strategy?”

This page quotes Sam Simmons’ article “How Culturally Engaging Is Your Evangelism Strategy,” Rick Warren’s Ministry Toolbox, Issue 247, February 22, 2006. For more about Sam check him out at Rockbridge Seminary a fully-online seminary.
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Business guru Peter Drucker was fond of asking two questions:

What’s your business?
How’s business?

According to John Mark Terry, 80 percent of the Protestant churches in North America are plateaued or declining. If true, business for churches today is not good.

Could it be that the strategy or approach churches take to evangelize needs to change? According to Reggie McNeal, a “missional church” not only risks involvement with the world but goes so far as strategizing ways to engage the surrounding culture. How culturally engaging is your church’s evangelism strategy? Here are four questions that will help you and your leadership team make an evaluation.

Whose LANGUAGE Is Used?

Imagine sending a new missionary into an unfamiliar culture to evangelize, develop leaders, and plant churches. An immediate and critical task is finding a way to communicate – through an interpreter, by learning the language, or by using an understandable translation of God’s Word.

Few church leaders would question the need for a missionary to learn the language of the culture needing to be reached – he or she must use the language of the culture to communicate the Gospel. Yet, a similar communication challenge may exist between your church and those in the surrounding culture – a culture that knows nothing of the “language of Zion.” To the unchurched, “church-speak” is like a foreign language.

A pastor friend told me of an adult guest who approached him after his second church visit. “I tried to find the book you mentioned last week, pastor. None of the bookstores had heard of it,” he said with frustration in his voice. “What book is that?” my pastor friend asked, not remembering any book he recommended in his sermon. “The book of Mark,” stated the visitor, who did not know that “The Book of Mark” is a part of the New Testament.

What language does your church use to communicate the gospel to surrounding culture? Evaluate your church’s evangelism strategy for assumptions about language. Does the strategy assume that seekers are able to understand “church-speak” or does it lead your church to take responsibility for communicating so that an unchurched listener can understand?

Who Builds the BRIDGES?

On the mission field, a strategic component of the missions task is to find bridges over which people can come to Christ. The most common bridges are based on relationships, needs, and interests. Donald McGavran, missiologist and church growth expert, called these the “bridges of God.” He believed that God is at work in every culture preparing potential bridges over which people can come to know Him.

What is true on the mission field is true on your church field – seekers likely need a bridge to move from where they are to a place where they can hear and receive the Gospel message. Some evangelism strategies are based on programs, buildings, or weekend services that communicate – “come to us,” leaving the seeker with the responsibility to build the bridge. Other evangelism strategies assume that bridges built decades ago are still effective in spite of the fact that the surrounding culture has changed dramatically.

Does your church’s evangelism strategy lead your church to take responsibility for building and updating bridges over which people come to Christ – bridges that are understood, inviting, and safe for the seeker?

Whose CULTURE Adapts?

Every church communicates a “culture” to the unchurched visitor – how members dress, the accent of their speech, the age and gender of the ushers, how announcements are made, the style of music, the order of service, the way the sermon is communicated, the ethnicity and/or race that is most visible. A church’s “culture” is not expressed through one single thing, but by a general impression the visitor forms based on multiple factors. Without meaning to do so, a church may communicate a “culture” that is not welcoming to the very people they seek to reach.

For instance, a church may be concerned about how few young adult families they are reaching, though there is an explosion of young adult families in the community. A church consultant might advise leaders to visit nearby churches that ARE reaching young adult families and to study what makes that church’s “culture” so inviting. The result might be a list of “culture adjustments” that can be made for the sake of reaching young adult families, though the adjustments may take years to implement depending on the amount of change involved.

Does your church’s evangelism strategy call for “culture adjustments” if they are necessary for the sake of Kingdom influence?

What FENCES Need To Be Removed?

A fence is a perceived barrier that makes it more difficult for an unchurched person to connect with a church. In contrast to bridges that connect, fences disconnect. Fences turn away seekers before they ever hear the claims of Jesus Christ.

Fences take on different forms depending on the church – and are more visible to the seeker than to the church. In fact, long-time church members would probably be shocked to know what keeps unchurched people away from their church. A helpful exercise is to ask an unchurched person to visit your church and point out the “fences” you overlook. Removing a fence may be as simple as changing the wording on your church sign or adjusting the way guests are welcomed in the service.

Is your church’s evangelism strategy committed to removing fences that can keep seekers away before they are ever exposed to the Gospel message?

Use these four questions to evaluate your church’s evangelism strategy. Missional churches seek ways to engage the culture in which God has placed them – by the language they use, the bridges they build, the culture they portray, and the fences they remove. This unit will give you specific tools that will help you do that.

8 weeks before Easter - CONNECTION - touch points

Think about this for a minute. A first time guest arrives on your campus to a parking lot and a building in the distance. Regardless of whether or not they are a Christ follower what do you want them to do? You see, CONNECTION begins as touch points along the way from the street to the seat if you will, curb to the cushion, pavement to the pew…OK enough of the one liners. You get my point.

The key is eliminating every uncertainty a guest has in their experience on your campus. Predict their need in advance. Think about it. When you go to an unfamiliar place for the first time you are looking for any signs of directional information, guest services, parking attendants, signs, kiosks, screens, etc… that will give you the information you are looking for and/or the information they want you to have.

Be prepared come Easter to provide a seamless experience for your guests. Think about every question that may be raised and put a plan together to address that need. I know what you are thinking…Pastor Kerry we are a house church, we meet in a store front, we meet in a theater, we meet in a school. OK…you will still have to address the following areas regardless of where you meet.

1. Traffic / Parking - when I arrive where do you want me to park (starts at the curb)
2. Greeters - when I get out of my car who welcomes me and let’s me know where I go and where my kids are to go
3. Signage - appropriate communication for where a person is, where they need to go, and where they are when they arrive.
4. Welcome Centers - kiosks or information booths/tables where persons can find maps of the facility, and information from a personal host.
5. Ministry Promotional areas - these could be patios, tables, booths, etc… that highlight your major ministry areas where guests can speak with ministry leaders about next steps. (New Believers, Small Groups, Children, Youth, Celebrate Recovery, C.L.A.S.S. 101-501, etc…)
6. Prayer area - garden or open air areas where persons can go for prayer
7. Coffee House / Bookstores - refreshment areas are great areas to make first connections. Be intentional with your staffing. Don’t worry if you don’t have a coffee house or bookstore. Make it a coffee & resource area. Have something that requires mingling.
8. Ushers - where do I sit?, where can I sit?, can my 5 year old sit with us?, what’s an offering plate?, do you have a family room? can we bring our coffee in?, what do you mean I can’t bring m dog inside with me. Train your ushers well.
9. Digital Imaging - if technology is available make every means necessary to leverage the connection through media. Computer Kiosks, Video loops, free sermon downloads, wifi, etc…
10. Hospitality areas - safe places where persons can go and feel safe to ask any question they’d like without feeling pressured.

Here is another one. I just couldn’t stop on 10. Consider setting up a Family Photo Op. Have a photographer shoot a digital image and have them pick it up the following week. Let the church make this an Easter gift to the community.

Just a thought!

Evangelism without Additives - What if sharing your faith meant just being yourself?

I like to think of myself as a learner; therefore, my reason for hanging out people from all walks of life and persons who challenge me. During the summer of 2007 I had the privilege of hanging with Jim Henderson and Matt Casper after their book, “Jim and Casper Go To Church” caught my attention. I then traveled to Seattle, Wa in the fall of 2007 to attend Jim’s, “Off the Map” conference where once again I found myself challenged.

During my visit to Seattle, Wa I recall thinking…you know it’s not everyday you find an East Texas country boy, baptist by birth, raised by a penecostal mom, with a Bacelor of Science in Forestry, and a Master of Arts in Christian Education sitting at table with 14 people who consider themselves atheist telling them his faith story by interpreting his half sleeve tattoo as he shares his testimony while they are throwing back a few cold ones.

BUT…that is where I found myself when I learned of Jim’s book, “Evangelism without Additives: What is sharing your faith meant just being yourself“. The following day Jim told me he’d send me a copy in the mail. Sure enough he did and…well…it is a great read.

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So good in fact that I have encouraged my students at Rockbridge Seminary to pick it up and give it a read. I am teaching The Theology and Practice of Evangelism this spring and continue to learn something new each day.

I hope you enjoy the read.

Are You Ready? - video by Storyteller Church

I ran across this promo clip by the Storyteller Church. Here is just another example of ways to engage the emerging generations.

Enjoy!

Easter Planning Video Tips

Here are some tips as you begin planning for Easter.

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