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G2G “Grow to Go: Reaching Your Potential”

Grow to Go

I am so excited to share with you how we have been unpacking the 4 C’s at Christ Fellowship (CF) in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.  As you recall the 4 C’s are Communication, Connection, Contribution and Community.

As we think through helping persons take next steps on the journey of faith see if this helps you.  At CF we are doing this through G2G - Grow to Go: Reaching your Potential.

G2G can be unpacked this way.

Discover - Now that you’re on the JOURNEY and have made the most important decision of your life…what’s next?

Develop - no matter what stage of life you’re in, if you have a desire to grow in your relationship with others and Jesus… here are more NEXT STEPS.

Deploy - Jesus commands us to GO… check our next steps that will take your FARTHER than you’ve been before.

The principle of having the right people in the room.

These past couple of months I have been learning a ton about strategic planning at the core ministry level and its affects on multiple sites. One of my greatest learnings is the importance of having the right people in the room when the plan is laid down. That goes for first impressions, assimilation, communication, specific ministries, next steps, etc…

This is a principle that goes beyond multi-site and is very practical for the church running 50, 500, or 5,000 plus.

Sometimes we as staff in the church make decisions without having the right people in the room. Or we make assumptions that we have the right people in the room. My concern for us in this is that we make decisions we “think” are in the best interest of the organization when in reality they may not be.

And don’t think this is just a church thing. It happens in all types of organization. This past week while Stephanie was in the hospital she and I had the opportunity to talk with 2 ladies in post op about their procedures of post op care listed on the wall above Stephanie’s bed which was the acronym, “SHARED”. Now SHARED is the hospital administrations 6 steps of care that is suppose to be used by every department; however, we learned the truth by those in the trenches. The ladies shared with Stephanie and I that no one in the trenches uses those 6 steps because they are not practical and they do not transfer between departments. In fact, one of the ladies sad, “Ahh… you know how it is, some of those ivory tower decisions without knowing how things really work.”

WOW… might it be said of you and I that we have and/or are making “ivory tower decisions”. I sure hope not. I know that the team that I have the great privilege of serving alongside are working overtime to make sure we have all the players in the room. We are not prefect by any means, but we are working at having the right people in the room.

Just a thought as you look to future planning.

The Need to be Right

Ever found yourself defending a position just for, “the need to be right”.  Well, I have.  I was editing First Impression manuals (traffic, greeters, ushers, welcome center, security, communion, service coordinator, etc…) this week when I found myself editing them with a need to be right instead of how best it would serve the organization.

I was in the midst of standardizing the manuals when I noticed I was leaning toward positions of “being right” instead of what is best for all multi-sites.  SO, I stopped and started over completely with a “right frame of mind”.

The final work up is much better when you have the right frame of mind.  In addition, I turned on the “track changes” function and sent it back out to all the campuses for their input before bringing this to a culmination of the finished product in the next 2 weeks.

Sidebar:  standardizing these areas of ministry in a multi-site environment is the right thing to do.  It builds team, keeps DNA consistent, supports ease of enlistment/training/placement, allows cross training, and gives you freedom to share the work load among your multi-site campuses.  Not to mention that it fosters communication, connection, contribution, and community.

David Upton has been leading me to worship more freely.

Please forgive me for not posting in the past couple of weeks.  We have been moving into our new home in Jupiter, Florida as well as landing as the new Pastor of Adult Ministries at Christ Fellowship.David Upton

I awoke this morning to a beautiful sun rise over the tall pines in my backyard while listening to my new David Upton CD, “Unshackled“.  David has been leading me to worship for the past several years and recently my worship experience has been more freeing.

Thank You David!  First for being a man of God unshackled by tradition or expectations.  Secondly, a godly husband to your wife and children.  Third, for helping me reconnect with my God.

Check David out on his website and myspace.

You will be blessed as he leads you to worship.

First Impressions and the effect on Multi-Site Campuses

I am so blessed to be in the midst of thinking though First Impressions and its relationship to a multi-site campus environment.

What does it mean to standardize First Impressions and all that that entails across multi-site?

I.e. -

Communication - oral, print, broadcast, & digital media (branding look/feel)

Connection - traffic, greeters, ushers, first aid, security, welcome centers, campus cleaning, ministry promotions

Contribution - enlistment, training, and placement of ministry partners and the need for cross training

Community - standardization of B.E.L.O.N.G.ing (Become, Embrace, Live, Offer, Nurture, & Grow)

What does it mean to have a standardized assimilation strategy that is organic enough to allow for real community yet strategic enough that follow-up and next steps are taking place.  Stability that creates flexibility.

The more I am researching the more I can see how standardization makes “intentionally”, “clarity”, “alignment”, and “focus” home runs for unity and productivity across an organization.

What are your learnings in this area?

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Walk Slowly and Carry a BIG Stick OR Walk Slowly Through the Crowd

Being raised in North East Texas there was an underlying principle that seems to have been handed down from generation to generation and I inherited it.

Walk Slowly and Carry a BIG Stick.

Now over the years I’ve learned that carrying a big stick works well in dark alleys and a few country bars I found myself wandering through in the early days; however, it isn’t successful in leading a team. When you carry a big stick you have to determine how high you want to stack them? What I mean by that is that if you carry a big stick there will be people that you run over, and stack in your wake. Over time you will be very lonely. Loneliness isn’t a leadership principle… it is a control principle.

I was reminded yesterday at Impact Leadership Network with my Pastor, Dr. Tom Mullins and John Maxwell of a great leadership principle that works much better.

Walk slowly through the crowd.

You and I know that to lead a team, listening is crucial to the effectiveness of where you are taking the team. The best leaders are listeners.

My first 90 days at Christ Fellowship I am focusing on Listening, Learning, and Loving. I truly believe this will be a healthy move for the team, the organization, and myself.

Couple of thoughts from the talk yesterday.

1. Listening is the Best Way to Learn.

2. Listening Can keep Problems from Escalating.

3. Listening Can Improve The Organization.

The Church…please don’t be a weakling - those who like Jesus need you.

How the Church can Respond…A Great Hope for the Future, Kimball’s final thoughts about the church in, “They Like Jesus But Not The Church”.

  • The church is an organized community with a heart to serve others.
  • The church is a positive agent of change loving others as Jesus would.
  • The church holds women in the highest respect and includes them in the leadership of the church.
  • The church is a loving and welcoming community.
  • The church is respectful of other people’s beliefs and faiths.
  • The church holds beliefs with humility and strives to be thoughtful theologians.

Just another thought!

Dan capstones his book with a quote from Nenri Houwen:

When we have been wounded by the Church, our temptation is to reject it. But when we reject the Church, it becomes very hard for us to keep in touch with the living Christ. When we say, ‘I love Jesus, but I hate the Church,’ we end up losing not only the Church but Jesus too. The challenge is to forgive the Church.

This challenge is especially great because the Church seldom asks us for forgiveness, at least not officially. But the Church as an often fallible human organization needs our forgiveness, while the Church as the living Christ among us continues to offer us forgiveness.

It is important to think about the Church not as ‘over there’ but as a community of struggling, weak people of whom we are part and in whom we meet our Lord and Redeemer.

Nenri Nowen
Bread For The Journey

Offering an Apologetic and an Apology

Here is a good one…page 250 in Dan Kimball’s, “They Like Jesus But Not The Church”. I love this paragraph. Let me put it in bullet points for simplicities sake.

  • We need to offer and apologetic to correct misperceptions.
  • We also need to offer an apology when the church hurts people in the name of Jesus.
  • We need to offer an apology for arrogant and shameful things we’ve said and for presenting as truth our fallible opinions.
  • We need to offer an apology for straying from the mission of the church and becoming self-absorbed citizens of the bubble.
  • We need to apologize whenever the beautiful bride of Christ is prostituted for a church leader’s or a politician’s agenda.
  • We need to apologize when we aren’t honest with people and become so seeker-friendly that we don’t tell them the hard truth about sin and repentance.
  • We need to apologize when we say that we are all sinners saved by grace but show contempt for those who are still in sin.

This really made me think.

A Great Hope For The Future

When we say, ‘I love Jesus, but I hate the Church,’
we end up losing not only the Church but Jesus too. The challenge is to forgive the Church. This challenge is especially great because the Church seldom asks us for forgiveness.

Henri Nouwen
Bread For the Journey

 

Chapter 13 in “They Like Jesus But Not The Church” rings of being prepared to have some answers for the emerging generation. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “…always be prepared to give an answer to everyone…with gentleness and respect.” We sometimes forget the “gentleness and respect” piece of that scripture.

Dan Kimball proposed the following set of questions that are good for all of us to wrestle with as we think of the great hope for the future.

1. Who are you having ongoing relationships and conversations with?

2. Are you training the people in your church to have a missional heart?

3. Are you creating in your church a culture and encourages people to hang out and develop relationships with those who like Jesus but not the church?

4. When you answer questions, do you do so with “gentleness and respect”?