Monthly Archive for September, 2007

Lessons and Learning’s from the week

10.  Last minute plane tickets are outrageously expensive.

9.  We don’t give our kids enough credit for their ability to care.  Thank you Caleb for caring for Dad by taking care of mom, Josiah, and Levi while I was away.

8.  Father-n-laws are a lifesaver at 11:40 p.m. at night when you need a car at DFW airport.

7.  Drinking (2) XXL Monster Energy drinks while eating a large almond chocolate bar at 2:00 a.m. in the morning is not advised.  It will keep you awake, but the after affects are a killer.

6.  Driving from Dallas to Longview, Texas between 12:00 midnight and 3:00 a.m. is a lonely stretch of highway.

5.  The front doors of Good Shepherd Medical Center in Longview, Texas are locked at 3:00 a.m. – you have to enter through the Emergency Room Doors.

4.  Hospitals keep the temperature in their room’s way too cold.  I like to have froze in my mom’s hospital room.

3.  Thank you to Dr. Leatherman (Cardiologist) at Good Shepherd Medical Center.  You are truly a gifted man.

2.  Thanks to Mark W. (Magnolia, Ar.)  It was great hanging out with you while visiting with my mom.  Friends are not always easy to come by, so when you find one, hang on to them.  Mark you are a great friend.  Thanks for all the years you have spoken into my life and my family.  Thanks for praying over my mom as well.  Even though your eschatology is way messed up (wink, wink) I still love ya Bro!

1.  Mom, you are one in a million.  76 and still running full steam ahead.  Love Ya!

I learned another lesson this week.  Slowing down isn’t a bad thing.  Let me challenge us all to put down our cell phones, computers, ipods, and the like for at least one 24 hour period this week.  I think we’ll all be amazed at what we have been missing.

Thank you to all my mentors, advisors, and friends who called this past week to check on my mother.  You are truly a blessing.  It is beyond awesome to think about all the love you showed my family this week.

Book Review: REVEAL: Where are you?

Let me start by saying THANK YOU StS blog/podcast family for your prayers on my mothers behalf. My mother is doing great! and I’ll be headed back to SoCal Thursday afternoon.
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REVEAL bookcover

As I’ve been reading REVEAL: Where are you? it has caused me to begin to ask questions about churches I’ve served and am currently serving. Greg and Cally discuss the discovery of how a congregational survey became a spiritual growth conversation. I think they address many questions we’ve all had or are having. So pick it up. It is a quick read which is leading me to deeper discussions. You might have to order it through www.willowcreek.com or www.revealnow.com as I haven’t seen it on Amazon.com or in book stores.

In fact, several of the things the book gets at are things I think Pastor Lance Witt is addressing with the launch of Replenish Ministries through health, holiness, and humility. If you missed the podcast with Pastor Lance, click on “podcasts” under “Categories” in the right hand tool bar and give it a listen. It is a great podcast on where we need to be headed in the church.

REVEAL’S website www.revealnow.com states it this way, “Written by Greg L. Hawkins and Cally Parkinson , with editorial contributions from Eric Arnson , this book provides a strong overview of REVEAL. Greg Hawkins shares a dilemma he’s wrestled with throughout his 11 years as an executive pastor: Can we really know if our church is making a difference in the ongoing spiritual growth of our people? This pivotal question sets up the rest of the book and REVEAL as a whole.”

The 7 things you need to know when creating a learning community with Dr. Daryl Eldridge (Rockbridge Seminary) and Pastor Kerry

Join Dr. Daryl Eldridge (Founder & President of Rockbridge Seminary) and Pastor Kerry as they take a look at, “The 7 things you need to know when creating a learning community that will grow.”

Show links:

Rockbridge Seminary (A fully online seminary)

Wikinomics (Book)

 
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What is in a Name…Tag…that is?

To tag or not to tag is usually a conversation reserved for my hunt’n buddies and we all know that tagging is required unless you want a visit from the friendly Game Warden.  And I’m a tagger!  Ethically I have to be.  Not only do I have a degree in Forestry from Stephen F. Austin State University in Nacogdoches, Texas (Axe’m Jacks), but I’m a hunter, fishermen, and lover of the outdoors.  So I am all about managing the herd, flock, covey, etc… 

So let’s talk about managing another herd and the question of whether to tag or not tag; volunteers that is.  Should volunteers wear name tags?  What message does it send? Why?  Who benefits from church members wearing name tags and the list of question goes on and on.  It is a discussion that I am often asked to answer and it is something that comes up in discussions with churches looking to better connect their membership with guests who attend. 

SO…

Should volunteers wear name tags?

Because we want to be like Wal-Mart - NO
Because we are trying to connect people - MAYBE
Because of security reasons on campus - YES

The real question becomes more about what is your desired outcome from asking volunteers to wear name tags?

As it pertains to Preschool, Children, and Youth – I say YES.  It provides not only an identification of your adult leadership, but also serves as a security measure for who are in and around your children and students.  You might also consider having them on lanyards with color code to identify age groups, years of service, and leadership roles.  Let your creativity soar here.  Make this something that is fun and non corporate looking.

As it pertains to traffic, greeters, ushers, healthcare providers, campus cleaning, welcome centers, ministry teams, hospitality teams, security, etc…  Maybe…it is really up to the individual church.  There has been much to say about the use of name tags with these type ministry areas in recent months.  In fact, in my discussion with Jim & Casper it came up when Casper said, “I had to make it by the gauntlet of greeters.”  It caused me to think…all our greeters have name tags…what if they didn’t wear name tags yet still served in that capacity…would it make a difference…would it have looked “less like they are required greeters”, “the hired happy people”, and more like they are just folks who are hanging out on the campus and love to make persons feel welcomed.

As it pertains to the pastoral team – I say maybe.  Members and guests need to put a name and face together but this doesn’t always need to happen through a name tag.

As for the rest of the volunteer herd…maybe not so much.  Here is the deal.  With younger emergent and missional churches we are finding less name tags and more persons on front line of relationship building. They are just people, who love Jesus on the front lines of bringing, connecting, training, sending, and glorifying.  No tags required.

I have to tell you I am leaning more toward no name tags outside of the preschool, children, and youth areas and more about just getting the right people in the right places around the campus and telling them to love on people…no tags required.

I’d love to hear your thoughts based on your “neck of the woods”.  (Interpretation – based on where you live in the United States and the context in which your church functions?)

Post a comment and let us hear from you.

Kerry’s mom (Faye Mackey) released from East Texas Hospital

StS Family, thank you so very much for your prayer support.  I arrived in East Texas at 3:00 a.m. Sunday.  My mother is doing well.  They have changed her blood pressure medication, ran every test known to man and have released her from the hospital.

Apparently she has a palpitation of the heart that affected her 40 years ago and it decided to raise it’s ugly head again at age 76.  Not bad for going 40 years without it affecting you.  In fact, my mother hasn’t been in the hospital in my 36 years of life.  Wished I could say the same for myself.  They are going to watch her very carefully from here on out as you might expect.  So here come the stress tests and monthly EKG’s.

I will be staying with her this week in East Texas.  We have a nuclear stress test scheduled for Tuesday and the doctor may release her to go back to work next Thursday.  I will stay with her through Thursday before returning to southern California.

StS will not miss a beat this week.  Thanks Team for all your hard work.

Monday - Feature Article
Tuesday - Podcast with Dr. Daryl Eldridge, Founder and President of Rockbridge Seminary
Wednesday - Book Review
Thursday - Guest Blogger
Friday - Lessons and Learning’s from my week - this one should be a doozie.

911 Emergency…Kerry’s Mom is taken to the Hospital

By the time you read this I’ll be on the ground in Dallas/Fort Worth Texas.  It is around 11:40 p.m. (CST) on September 22, 2007 and I am literally in a car and driving east toward Longview, Texas and Good Shepherd Hospital while uploading this file to the blog, thanks to my Sprint air card.  You see, my mother was rushed to the hospital Friday night by ambulance.  She is 76 years old and lives on her own in Gladewater, Texas.

I have been trying for years to get her to move in with Stephanie and me.  Maybe she will consider it now.  We would like nothing more than to have her living with us in southern California.  Stephanie, the boys, and I love my mom who is known by the grand-kids as, “Granny”.  Hint! Hint! Granny 

Apparently she blacked out late Friday night in her home in Gladewater, Texas.  When she regained consciousness she called Cathy (her boss) who immediately rushed to the house.  THANK YOU Cathy!  Cathy called 911 and my mother was rushed to Good Shepherd Medical Center in Longview, Texas 30 minutes from her home.  Her blood pressure was somewhere around 220 over 180 with a heart rate over 175 as I have come to understand it.  That says it all doesn’t it.  Cardiologists have been running test ever since.  She is stable and up walking around the hospital, but if I know her, it is worse than what she is telling me.  I know, I’m just like her.

 

I don’t know much else…I am on a flight from Orange County, California to Dallas/Forth Worth, Texas at this time (41,000 feet over Palm Springs, CA 7:18 p.m.).  I’ll let you know details later.

Here is how it came down for me. 

4:00 p.m. – on the beach at Doheny State Park, Dana Point, CA preparing for beach baptisms.

4:10 p.m. – call from my mother…”Hey, Mom what’s up? I’ve left several messages for you yesterday and today…how are you?” 

Mom says, “Do you have a minute?”

I Say, “Well of course I do”.

Mom says, “I’m in Good Shepherd Medical Center

I say, “I’ll be on a plane in an hour.”

Mom says, “No..No…you don’t have to do that.”

I say, “What happened?”

Mom says, “I blacked out at my home Friday evening late…blood pressure 220/180 with a heart rate of 175+, but I feel fine now…I’m up walking around.  Dr. White says I’ll be fine.”

I say, “Why didn’t someone call me last night?”

Mom says, “I didn’t want you to worry.  Your sister is here and the Doctor may let me go tomorrow or Monday.”

I asked to talk with my sister.  My sister gives me the low down and I tell her I’ll be there before mom wakes up Sunday morning.

4:15 p.m. – call my wife (Stephanie) and tell her the news

4:20 p.m. – tell my team to take over for me at the beach. (My team ROCKS!)  They jumped right in and took charge.  Thanks Denise and Gina.  Thanks also to Cameron, Kathy, Greg, Sonya, Les, Eric and Pastor Sam.  I’m sure there were others around that I am forgetting.  Thank you too!

4:25 p.m. – Caleb (my 7 yr old) and I on the road to the house.  By the way…Caleb, you are a real trooper.  Thanks for being calm and helping daddy.  Hope those 2 front teeth come out while I’m gone.  I know how much they are hurting you and I know you’re ready for them to come out.  They are only hanging on by a thread.  Go ahead and pull’m.  The tooth fairy has your skate board gear ready for delivery I’m just certain of it.

4:30 p.m. – called Steve (my boss) to tell him I was headed to the airport…he says, “well you had better be…take all the time you need…we are praying for your family.”

4:32 p.m. – called Gerald (Executive Pastor) (Steve’s boss) to tell him I was headed to the airport

4:34 p.m. – called Glen (Senior Executive Pastor) to update him.

4:36 p.m. – called Jim to see what was the last flight out of Orange County

4:40 p.m. – called Steph and asked her to book me a flight on the 7:00 p.m. AA out of Orange County to Dallas/Fort Worth

4:45 p.m. – called my sister back to tell her I would be in Longview, Texas by 3:00 a.m. Sunday morning and by mom’s side by the time she woke up.

4:47 p.m. – Gerald calls back to say he is praying.

4:50 p.m. – Glen calls from an island to say he is praying

4:52 p.m. – see David G. underground parking while changing cars– thanks David for your prayers.

5:00 p.m. – use toll road…arrived at my house…Steph had the boys ready to travel to the airport with me.

5:10 p.m. – loaded the family in the van for my trip to the airport.

5:35 p.m. – arrived at airport

5:45 p.m. – checked in

6:00 p.m. – eating McDonalds (20 piece chicken nugget, large fry, large Diet Coke) I wonder what my blood pressure and heart rate are?

6:08 p.m. – Pastor Rick Warren (Senior Pastor) calls between services to check on me and to tell me he is praying for my mom and for my safe travel.

6:10 p.m. – text message from Liz (Pastoral Care Team) saying she is praying and to update her when I can.

6:15 p.m. – text a message through twitter.com to the StS network

6:17 p.m. – text Clayton C. about mom

6:30 p.m. – Starbucks run (Vente, bold, with room) Once again thinking of my blood pressure and heart rate.

6:35 p.m. – board flight 1508 early

6:40 p.m. – text my sister that I was boarding the flight

6:45 p.m. – early departure

The rest is yet to be written.  I’ll update you as soon as I know more. 

PLEASE start the prayer chain through our social network for my mother.

 

Faye B. Mackey

Thank StS Family!

Lessons and Learning’s from the Week: Top 10 List

10. Take a vacation from your opinions.

9. Give yourself permission to dialog, not debate.

8. Be a co belligerent in the faith.

7. See the conversation over the conversion.

6. Never eat alone…always take someone with you.

5. www.churchrater.com is a really interesting website

4. Off The Map and Street to the Seat are creating “third places” to be learners.

3. Spending time with Jim Henderson and Matt Casper was a real treat.

2. In an interview with Daryl Eldridge with Rockbridge Seminary I was reminded that we all have something to offer to the conversation if we will just participate.

1. First Impressions mean more that you could ever imagine.

Please join the conversation with us as we address tips, tools, and provide you inside conversations of what we are learning at Street to the Seat.

Get in the game…post a comment…join the blog…invest…invite…be involved.

Jim Henderson and Matt Casper

I feel the need to publicly thank Jim Henderson and Matt Casper for spending time with some of the StS gang on Wednesday night in San Diego, California. I was tempted to titled the article posting, “What do you get when 4 pastors and an atheist sit down for dinner?”, but I didn’t.

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What you get is a great time of fellowship, conversation, and open dialog. I had the best time just hanging out with Jim and Matt learning about their experience while writing “Jim and Casper Go to Church.” We spent 2 hours over dinner sharing thoughts, learnings, and the like.

Then we spent another hour recording a podcast which we will be releasing to you in the next several weeks.

So…stay tuned!

Thanks guys for a great dinner and evening of learning together. I greatly appreciate your openness to learn with us.

Book Review: Dear Church by Sarah Cummingham

As you know I read a diverse group of books, some for which we will all agree with and others we might not; however, this book was recommended to me by my mentor Daryl Eldridge (Rockbridge Seminary) and I knew, “I must read it”. I’m not quite finished, but I did promise you one book review a week.

Dear Church

Sarah is a twenty-something year old high school teacher who in this writing composes 14 letters to the church. Sarah isn’t writing necessarily about a building, a denomination, structure, but the church at large. Each chapter ends with a section of discussion questions and key observation.

At the very beginning of the book Sarah says this to us, “I hope you will join me in opening the communication lines that will earn space for new ideas and priorities in the church of tomorrow. And I hope that together we can recover ways to breathe new life into the faith systems of the future. If you are a church leader, I hope you will benefit from such a raw telling of how disillusionment has affected me and some in my generation.”

This is just what I’m looking for, a place for open communication. Sarah, we would love to join you in this journey.  Please join with us as well. Thank you for writing this book.

 

“Soul Care” and it’s impact on the local church with Pastor Kerry Mackey, Pastor Lance Witt, and Tony Steward

Join Pastor Kerry Mackey (StS), Pastor Lance Witt, Founder of Replenish Ministries and Tony Steward, Founder of Contagious Solutions as they address health, holiness, and humility through “soul care” and the impact Replenish Ministries is having on the Christian community.

Show Links:

lance@streettotheseat.com

www.lynda.com

9 things you Simply must do (Book)

The Rest of God: Restoring Your Soul By Restoring the Sabbath (Book)

Contest:

As mentioned on the pod cast…commenting on this pod cast has benefits. You will be entered to potentially win a FREE copy of the book, “9 things you Simply must do“. Post questions, ideas for shows, and/or people you’d like for us to interview. We’ll pick from your ideas and select the top 5 comments for a FREE book.

 
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